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You might already know that is super important for understanding your vulva and getting used to different sensations. Well, the good news is that it’s also a really great way to prepare yourself for anal sex. Begin with at your own pace. Be sure to use lots of and slowly insert your own finger into your anus, so you get to know how it feels. You can start by pressing your perineum and anus to get used to the sensation of pressure there, and then slowly take things to the next level.
Remember how we said to exclusively use anal sex-approved products? This is doubly so for toys. Why? Just ask any emergency room physician. They will tell you countless tales of inappropriate objects stuck up people’s butts.
Anal sex can feel great, which is why many people include it as a regular part of their sex life. But notes that anal sex can hurt if you’re not relaxed or if you don’t use lube. As we explain below, it’s not something you should jump into without a little preparation. using plenty of lube and starting by inserting smaller things (like a finger) into your anus, then working up to bigger things (like a penis) can lessen the pain. You should also keep an open flow of communication during partnered anal sex so you can tell your partner how fast or slow they should go, if you need more lube, what feels good, and anything else that’s on your mind. Great communication can help you have a more pleasurable experience.
Due to the risk of STDs, are an essential part of anal sex in casual relationships. It is also suitable for couples because the bacteria from the anus can get inside the urethra of the man’s penis and cause a UTI – Urinary Tract Infection. When using condoms, make sure to use water-based lubricants with latex condoms, as an oil-based lube will break down and destroy the condom. If using polyurethane condoms, please see our article: .
Thinking about anal sex for the first time? From how it feels to how to do it, we worked with sexpert, Charlotte Creplet, to get to the bottom of the questions around anal pleasure for vulva owners!
